I'm one of those people that does like to be by myself a lot more than most people. I've never been too needy that I always need to be in contact with someone whenever I'm alone. I m quite happy to immerse myself in a good book and forget that other people even live around me. Don't get me wrong, I do love company and sometimes I do crave it but I don't necessarily need it all the time.
But sometimes, this is a bad thing too. Sometimes because I don't necessarily need people around me, I get a little antisocial and find myself not wanting to go out. It's a little weird but I could probably find an excuse to not go out for multiple plans simply because I wanna spend the day alone on the sofa. I'm a little lazy too that doesn't bode well for being social
I'm out dog walking with my friends from Uni today but I must admit that i did have a little thought to cancel so I didn't have to move BUT I thouht about how much more I would enjoy the day if I got to spend it with my friends.
Sometimes, you need to forget about the effort it might be to do something and think about how much better you'll feel afterwards. And this relates to almost everything that you do- you may not want to get off the sofa and do some exercise rather than watching TV but instead of thinking about how much effort it is, think about how much better you'll feel after.
Just get it over and done with and do what is needed. You'll feel a lot better after. For me, this is actually being a human being that isn't lazy to be social. I'm terrible...
Have a brilliant day. Stop your excuses and get on with it ;)
Love youuuuu
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