Tuesday, 15 October 2013

Motivational Monday/Tuesday #25

Considering yesterday I completely neglected the schedule of Motivational Monday, I thought I would do another one of these Motivational Tuesdays and give you a message to pick you up and carry you on for the rest of the week. Yesterday, I fell asleep on the sofa at 5:30 for half an hour because I was knackered. There are many times these past couple of weeks when I have just been exhausted and I don't know why. I don't know if it's just that the change in schedule for uni has taken me by surprise or whether I lack enough iron to make me not so tired. Whenever I go to give blood, I always get told that I am low on iron so it might be that I need to take some supplements...

Okay, for today's motivational message:
A lot of people want to get to where they want to be right at that very moment. A lot of people in my life are not necessarily where they want to be at the moment and are just doing some things to get to the place they want to be. It is annoying because I can see how frustrated they are with their current life and how much it is disheartening for them to not be where they want to be in terms of jobs. One of the greatest things that we need to take from life is that just because you aren't where you want to be or something isn't happening right at that moment, doesn't mean it never will.

As long as you keep going for whatever it is you want to do then you'll get there. It might take a little longer than you first expected but as long as you get there, how long the journey takes doesn't really matter. Not only does this goes for a professional level i.e. a career, but it also goes for relationships.

Not everyone is going to be in a relationship, and those that are, not all are going to be in the position that you want them to be. But the fact is that you aren't always going to be alone. Just because you haven't found that one person at this moment in time doesn't mean that you never will. A lot of negativity comes with being single when everyone else around you is in a relationship but that shouldn't make you feel like you need to be in a relationship. If you are happy enough with who you are, I believe that it is better to be alone and happy than be in a relationship and need the person to be who you are. You don't need someone else to be you and being able to be confident and you without an extra is something to be more proud of.
Just because your life isn't exactly how you imagined it, doesn't mean that it never will be. You can look at you not being quite there and give up on your dreams to avoid any negative feelings about yourself or you could take that as a goal and propel yourself forward doing everything in your power to get there. Do the latter, it'll serve you better in the long run!
I hope I have positively motivated you this Tuesday and that you have enjoyed this segment. I really do love trying to give people advice, I've been told I'm quite good at it. I also take my own advice and know that this year is going to be hard and it will stretch me in ways that I can't imagine but at the end of the day, it'll get me to where I want to be and that's the only thing that matters! 

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